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A racist campaign
Most of you reading this will be aware of the awful news regarding the Autistic Professor Jason Arday. Jason was literally hounded to death by the newspapers, with certain papers being the main culprits, but all guilty in my opinion (they are still hounding his poor family outside their home!). Jason resigned from his position at Cambridge University in early August where he had been appointed Professor of Sociology of Education aged only 37. He was the youngest ever Black pr
Viv Dawes
Aug 173 min read


What burns us out as neurodivergent people?
Language In this blog I am going to use the word neurodivergent. What do we mean by this and why is it important? Neurodivergent is a word first used by Kassaine Asasumasu in the late 1990s, early 2000s to describe people ‘whose neurocognitive functioning diverges from dominant societal norms in multiple ways’. As Sonny Jane Wise (The lived experience educator, https://www.livedexperienceeducator.com/) explains ‘Neurodivergent refers to anyone who diverges from neuronormativi
Viv Dawes
Aug 125 min read
It’s not discipline- it’s just cruelty
Out of the children who cannot attend school in the UK, 92% are neurodivergent and 85% of these are autistic (Mullally and Connolly). Out of these autistic students many will be PDAers (PDA known as a persistent desire for authenticity, or persistent drive for autonomy) and most have likely been missed. From a young age their need for their own agenda will be seen as defiance, wilfulness and needing control ‘they are so difficult’ ‘they always have to have things their own wa
Viv Dawes
Aug 33 min read
Mild autism?
Although autism is not a health, a mental health or a behavioural condition or disorder, many still think of it in these ways. When it comes to health conditions ‘mild’ means ‘not serious or dangerous’. It’s essentially saying that when an autistic person is classed in this way that they only have ‘a mild case of autism’ and their life is not seriously or dangerously impacted. Mild autism would be considered Level 1 where an autistic person is seen as having ‘some need’. Seei
Viv Dawes
Jul 294 min read


Neurodivergent people and trauma
There are different forms of trauma that we can experience as children, teenagers and adults, namely individual, interpersonal, structural and collective trauma. Neurodivergent people are however often more vulnerable to experiencing trauma, especially for example bullying, victimisation, sexual abuse, generational trauma and accidents. https://neurodivergentinsights.com/adhd-and-trauma/?srsltid=AfmBOoqlLQ8ZhWUonjZhlcVx1j3Dg18eiVE4gmL62kfIltW7_W--rdOS In various studies it h
Viv Dawes
Feb 234 min read


Yet another battle in the war against autistics
We can all laugh at Trump and Robert Kennedy’s completely ridiculous ideas about autism and that it is linked to paracetamol taken during...
Viv Dawes
Sep 24, 20254 min read
AuDHD Burnout
My speech at the 2025 London Autism and ADHD Show I am Viv Dawes autistic advocate, trainer, consultant and author. I am a late...
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Jun 20, 202516 min read


Bleeding all over the place and so what!
I am 57 this year. I still haven't learned to be fully independent. Why? Because as humans we are actually not built for this. As...
Viv Dawes
Mar 21, 20256 min read


PIP cuts mean Labour have lost my vote - forever
A pair of scissors I am angry, so very angry! I have voted for the UK Labour Party my whole life and have always been a proud socialist,...
Viv Dawes
Mar 19, 20258 min read


Being neurodivergent and addiction
a person looking down, out of focus, moving their head quickly I have neurodivergent family members who strugged with substances in the...
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Mar 6, 20257 min read


Death by a thousand cuts
Picture of a white iPhone with lots of different apps on the screen and colourful wallpaper Everyone is talking about neurodivergent...
Viv Dawes
Feb 12, 20254 min read


Menopause and burnout in ND people.
Two cars that have crashed into each other and one is on its side I am now almost 57 and post menopausal, although I am still struggling...
Viv Dawes
Feb 8, 20258 min read


Your ignorance is killing us! It is time that professionals working with autistic people understood burnout.
Too many autistic people end up in psychiatric wards and hospitals in the UK and I am sure in other parts of the world also. Autism is...
Viv Dawes
Jan 15, 202511 min read


Misinterpreting distress in autistic people; change the narrative
Meltdowns, shutdowns, sensory seeking, stimming, demand avoidance - none of this is bad or challenging behaviour. I talk from personal...
Viv Dawes
Jan 9, 20254 min read


Neurodivergent people and the school to prison pipeline
I was born and raised in a very deprived part of South London and went to schools that had a lot of challenges, due to poor funding and...
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Jan 9, 20254 min read


Are burnt out autistic young people filling up our psychiatric units?
This is not easy to write. It’s painful, as I understand the suffering caused when autistic people are mistreated and unnecessarily...
Viv Dawes
Sep 5, 20246 min read


The problem with resilience
According to the Oxford dictionary resilience means: 1. The capacity to withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness. 2....
Viv Dawes
Aug 31, 20243 min read


Why CBT is often not helpful for an autistic person
Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck were the two main therapists responsible for what we call cognitive behavioural therapy. It was mainly Beck...
Viv Dawes
Aug 31, 20245 min read


The foundation of ABA is unspeakable
You might just think I am bonkers for what I am about to say and dismiss it. However, many of us in the autistic community know what it...
Viv Dawes
Aug 31, 20243 min read
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